DrDebzz Opening Shpiel
Do you keep hitting snafus in search of meaningful mergers, amazing alliances, awesome associations? Are you doomed to being alone, due to an enormous list of unreasonable expectations and relentless deal-breakers?
Autumn is the season of transition and transformation, an auspicious time to open your mind body and spirit to the possibility of change. You can have fulfilling relationships by stepping away from your comfort zone.
Take all exits out of your current liaisons. Make a daily commitment to stay involved with your person, albeit spouse, lover, bff, relative, or coworker. Aim for a goal of deepening your connection. Try to remember what attracted you to each other in the first place.
Rather than focusing on the differences, look for the similarities. Resign from the "know it all" society. Give up your right to be right. Listen and learn. Trade in the weakness of stoicism for the strength of vulnerability. Practice the "sixth language of love" elucidated at https://youtu.be/_Hp9vDQt5J0
Guest Caller
Stephanie seeks help dealing with a sibling who hasn't spoken to her since their mother died. She also wants to know if she should trust a man who says he loves her, but doesn't want to get married.
Weekly WOW (Words of Wisdom)
"Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate." Albert Schweitzer
"Choose being kind over being right and you'll be right every time." Richard Carlson
Confidence Boosters/Esteem Builders
I express my sexuality in healthy ways that show
respect for myself and others.
Sexually pleasing another is my choice, not my duty.
I accept my sexuality as a wonderful part of my wholeness.
No matter how long I have allowed an uncomfortable sexual situation to continue, I can choose to say "no."
Featured Artist
Dynamic jazz vocalist, Cathy Segal-Garcia, in a live studio interview, reveals the meaning of music in her life, advice for aspiring artists, what she believes is the key to finding and keeping love, and much much more.
Hear an original tune from Cathy's 13th CD, “Straight Ahead To the U.K." You're invited to attend the release party of her latest magnum opus on Saturday October 5th, at Cathy's favorite House Concert Venue in Highland Park. Tickets at cathysegalgarcia.com
Accompanying Cathy will be the following master musicians: Isamu McGregor on piano, Carey Frank on B3 organ, John Leftwich on bass, Bernie Dresel on drums, Brad Dutz on percussion, Benn Clatworthy on alto sax, Ron Stout on trumpet/flugel, plus Irene Cathaway on background vocals.
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